Why should anyone have to convince someone else to be with them? What does that say about you? That's not how healthy sex works - you should never "convince" someone to have sex with you. ![]() You should want someone who goes after you - not someone who plays hard to get. ![]() This means you shouldn't worry about someone who's giving you "mixed signals" or try to win anyone over. No means no.Īdvice writer Mark Manson has written an important piece called " Fuck Yes Or No" - a vital rule of thumb that applies to all levels of the dating world, from flirting to sex to long-term relationships: If someone isn't giving you an excited, eager "fuck yes!" then they're giving you a "no." There is no grey area - grey areas are "no." The Victorian-era narrative that coy women say "no" until their suitors keep badgering them to "prove their affection" is a relic - an antiquated instruction for young, unmarried women. If they’re giving you a “no," it’s a “no." Leave them alone.
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